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Most difficulties in day to day life stem from being undecided and not acting pro-active.

What stops us from being proactive or changing in general?
There are many reasons, some of which are: the fear of being wrong, the fear of making mistakes, the fear of not knowing what is around the corner!

Do not let the fear of making mistakes keep you from going where you want to go, or being where you want to be!
Have you ever been stopped from doing what you wanted to do by the fear of making a mistake?
Before I go on please ask yourself ....

1. Where in your life have you been reactive?
   Look at what has happened, and ask yourself how could I have been proactive?
2. Look at your life now and find out where you can be proactive and change before you have to change!
3. In which areas in your life have you been stopped by the fear of making mistakes, of being wrong or of being a failure?
4. In which areas in your life do you always get the same response, the same problems, the same difficulties? in other words, where do you get what you always get?
5. Can you change what you do, so that you don't do what you always do?

Let me demonstrate something!
Imagine that you can see me walking!
Walking: right foot - left foot -right-left-right-left, etc.
The only way to go ahead is to go: right-left-right-left-right- left.
Please listen carefully, I didn't say right - wrong!!!

There is nothing wrong with left, you have to do a left (wrong) step in order to get ahead.
You simply place one step after the other, which means:
There is no Wrong. There is no Right either, there is just learning (making a mistake) and correction!

 

If you are right all the time, > see what happens!
It would be like walking with the right leg only, and keeping the left one standing.
You would go around in circles. You are stuck, and sooner or later you will become obsolete, because learning has stopped and other people who are learning will take over.

It may be a safe feeling, being right, but by proving yourself right you stop yourself from learning more!

 

Nothing stands still. Life goes on all the time. Before you can blink your eyes, somebody has passed you by. Stop chasing, stop being reactive. Change before you have to change. It hurts less! Start looking.

Where can you be proactive?

If you do what everybody else does, you end up with what everybody else has,

which may not what you want at all.

Do you like what everybody else does?

 

Use your power of the mind to create the lifestyle you love to live.

 

 

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