Article by Philip Johnson
Trust is an essential ingredient for partnerships. When you are open your partner is likely to be open.
(Janis Abrahams Spring from her book - After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust when a Partner has Been Unfaithful.)
If you are willing to demonstrate with "bold, concrete steps" to show your partner you are trustworthy and if the hurt partner is open to it there is a very good chance that things may be better for you.
Socrates suggests to rigorously examine your life. Know what it is that allows you to be the way you are. People will know you for the things you DO.
Regularly exchange ideas, thoughts, feelings, how you see things with your partner, friends, family.
When others see and share things with you your relationships will prosper.
It reminds me of those first meetings lovers have when they are looking into the eyes of the beloved and sharing every intimate idea, thought, feeling... from this comes a deep understanding of the other and a recognition within the self of our thoughts and ideas. Do they match?
23 Apr 2012
Article/Information supplied by Philip Johnson
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