FINDING A GODDESS WITHIN A WOMAN

Interview with a Russian Goddess

Recently Russian media published sensational survey results: 98% of Russian women consider themselves to be unattractive! How can this be explained if Russian women rightfully considered being the most attractive women in the world?

According to the opinion of psychologists, the reason for it is hidden in Soviet history and is due to upbringing. In the former USSR a woman was not supposed to be attractive: since an attractive women stands out and it does not fit into the ideology of equality. This was not acceptable to the system.

During the Soviet regime there was a propaganda of genderless and faceless “comrades”, women was   not perceived as someone beautiful or divine, - explains a tutor from the “School of Goddesses”: In Russia girls are taught to be attached to pots, stoves and washing machines. An image of a housewife is being formed, a housewife who would sacrifice herself for the main thing in her life – her family.

The low self-esteem of Russian women is quite favorable to cosmetic companies and cosmetic surgeons. According to the market research Russia in the next few years will consume more cosmetic products than all of Europe. Long legged cover girls with their gleaming smiles and luxurious hair are offering shampoo, mascara and anti wrinkle creams wrongfully promising women a way to solve their problem of loneliness, low self-esteem and general lack of satisfaction with their lives. Woman buy believe all this even though there are no shampoos, which will bring happiness into relationships, and there are no miracle creams, which will heal a wounded soul.

In my search for the answer to all my questions of how to help Russian woman to believe in herself to believe in their beauty and to discover their uniqueness and individuality –

I met a teacher from the “School of Goddesses”  

Q: Tell our readers about your “School of Goddesses” and what you are teaching women there?

A: The  “School of Goddesses” – is a school for opening up women’s feminine essence, beauty, gifts and talents, which are given to each one of us from birth. Any woman can study there regardless of age, the main criteria is willingness to transform, to abolish old habits and to learn something new.

Q: What is the main idea behind the creation of your school?

A: The main idea is the liquidation of “sexual illiteracy”. This is not a joke. Neither at school nor at university do they teach us how to build a relationship with a man, how to correctly choose a partner or how to create and build a family. In our childhood years no one teachers girls how to become a women and no one teaches boys how to become a man.  And the results of this are catastrophic!

Q: What subjects are taught in the “School of Goddesses”?

A: We start with health and the development of the physical body. We pay a lot of attention to yoga, dances, especially those that develop and open up the female sexuality –flexibility and eastern dances. All of this makes a woman beautiful attractive, improves her posture, gives graciousness to her gate and movements. We teach methods to relax, relive stress and different massage techniques.
Secondly –is emotional and psychological culture: difference between women’s and men’s psychology, how men and woman should understand each other, build their relationship and how to raise healthy and talented children –. During the teaching process we discover that the majority of women do not even know what kind of partner they need, they do not know how to choose or how to meet a prospective partner. This is why they fall into relationships accidentally, sometimes with the first one who comes up to them and pays them a compliment, or says some nice words to them.
And certainly we give a lot of attention to the feminine arts: mannerism and the art of flirting. They learn how to be attractive, flirtatious, and alluring. They learn to create a sexy and charming image with the aid of make up and other “women’s devices”. Women learn all of the above with great enthusiasm. We teach the art of intimacy and sexual relationships to those who advanced through the first stages.
Females are creative by nature that is why during the learning process women open up their talents, their individual gifts. We teach the art of public speech, developing vocal abilities and acting. We have already mentioned dancing - dance is a basic of woman’s development. There are some specific directions of learning such as astrology, and special techniques of protection from negative influences, just to name a couple

Q: Do you give women marks in your school? How you evaluate their progress in the “School of Goddesses”?

A: The main criterion is a mirror!!! And admiring looks of people, especially men.

Q: Why – Goddesses? In common understanding a Goddess is something unreal, mythological, removed from reality. Why does a women need to become a goddess?
A:  A Goddess is someone who discovered herself, her gifts and her individual talents. A real woman is one who opens up the best in herself, who discovers her beauty. The concept and image of a goddess gives a woman powers.  Queen Cleopatra called herself a daughter of the God Ra (God of the Sun); this gave her power, strength and the wisdom to rule the country and to conquer the hearts of the most powerful man of that time. 

Q: What is the format the teaching process?

A: The teaching process is via the Internet on the sight of “School of Goddesses”, where there are lectures, with individual and group practices. And we also run retreats and educational tours.

Q: How long does it take to become a goddess?
 What is needed to successfully complete the studies?
A: It all depends on the strength of the desire of the woman to grow and on her willingness to practice what she learns at school.

Q: What is the source of the knowledge, which you give in the school?
A: The knowledge of the art of relationships existed in all cultures – ancient Slavic traditions, China, Egypt and many other cultures. But most of all this tradition was developed in India, for instance knowledge of ancient Indian temple Kodzuracho.  The celebration of womanhood in its many aspects of it was a tradition of that temple: writing a letter, putting on make up, passionate dancing, playing with a child… A woman – innocent, flirtatious, smiling, forever beautiful!!! Those traditions are not lost; it is just that modern society passes them by. The “School of Goddesses” brings it back to life. We see that modern psychology is unable to help women in search of happiness or their psychological survival... That is why many of our teachers have studied in Indian temples.

Q: Do you have women who have already graduated from your school?

A: Well, we do not give them a “Degree of a Goddess”. It would be silly. The main thing is how the woman feels inside, her self-evaluation and how confident she feels in her life. Women can attend the school for as long as she wants – until she feels that things are working and bringing positive changes into her life. It is interesting that those women who go through the learning process are very enthusiastic about teaching it to other women. By helping others: sharing her their knowledge a woman continues to grow and develop herself.

Apart from that we see amazing changes in women’s looks – they start flowering and looking 5 or even 10 years younger. It can easily be picked up on the “before” and “after” photos. Our students always stand out, and attract attention. Many women tell us that they attract men that they could not even dream about before, men that they would not have dare to approach before. The main recognition criterion for our school is that the husbands of our goddesses start telling their friends about the school and they send their wives and female friends to us.
Almost all women tell us that they have advanced in their professional lives, their career, even though we do not concentrate on this area. All this is due to the growth in self -confidence, women start believing in themselves believing that they deserve better in their lives.

Q: What is the “Scholl of Goddesses” attitude towards man?

A: Towards normal, worthy men – very good!!!

Q: What do you mean by normal worthy men?

A: A generous man, open, prepared to take responsibility for his woman. One who expresses his love not only with nice words but also with his actions. But it’s a different story that men need to learn how to become a worthy the same way as for a woman.

Q: Does this mean that there is a possibility of a “School of Gods” in the future? How do you feel about feminism?

A: Compassionate. The ideas of feminism were very important and helped women to realize the place they deserve in the society. But how did it end up? Women started proving that they were as good as a man. In reality it transpired that the woman started playing men’s roles – became masculine. No wonder that a reversal of roles took place in the society – man becoming feminine.

Q: You often say – to be worthy, worthiness. What do you mean by that?

A: A person feels worthy when he or she knows that they belong to something great. That is that you are not just Anna, your surname is such and such, you salary is such and such and your lot is to take care of your forever drunk husband and kids, and nothing else is in store for you in this life. You are a woman, an expression of divine beauty and harmony, you are a part of the universe, your soul is a part of the universal soul, and you are worthy all of its gifts. Your task in the world is to be a source of inspiration, love and beauty. This is your worthiness and it is not in your skills to make nice stakes.

Q: What is the school’s attitude towards modern fashion?

A: Modern fashion puts its standard on an individual. We teach women to walk away from blindly following fashion; to take from it only what emphasizes your best qualities, femininity, sexuality, and the individual shape of your figure. We teach and pay a lot of attention to individual style.

Q: What is the goddess’s diet like?

A: This depends on a lifestyle and activities of a woman. The main foods are vegetables, fruits, nuts, grains and dairy products. But if a woman lives in a big city she needs to eat meat at least 1-2 times a week. The main thing is for a woman to learn how to feel and understand the needs of her body and to eat whatever her body needs and as much as her body needs.

Q: Your advice to our readers?
A: Come to our school to study!!! And very soon YOU will find out that YOU can get anything YOU want out of your life. Never mind that YOU might feel helpless now. Start learning and YOU will be surprised by the positive changes in your life. Become a real Goddess! Radiate love, happiness, harmony and all of this will enter into your life. Create beauty and your life will be filled by beauty! Let you femininity to open up like a beautiful lotus. The “School of Goddesses” was created for YOU and with love for YOU.

Article provided by : Nadia